There was never yet a great man that was not at the same time truly virtuous"
Benjamin Franklin
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My family and I have had rough times and wonderful times in our lives. The rough times make you appreciate the good times that much more. We have been very poor financially. I remember when the kids were small I lost my job and we ended up living in a 1964 Ford Van for several months. For a while we had a tent too but one day when we went to town for me to look for work some of the cows from one of the ranchers knocked it over and it blew into some hot coals from the campfire we had to cook on and burnt up, so we all 6 slept in the van.
I finally got work and we found a small trailer for 20.00 a week, It was an older camper style trailer, but it had a shower and I had a job, so things were looking up. That was in Deming New Mexico around 1982. We survived and were a stronger family because of it. We moved to Silver City where the job was into a 3 room house, that was like a Mansion compared to the Van. we lived in that house for about 2 years before moving to a larger house in Silver City then buying a Mobile Home in Central NM.
Things got a lot better for us for the next several years and I started a printing and advertising specialty business in Silver City NM. It did OK and we made some real good money, but a few business mistakes cost the business and so we moved to Tucson Az where I went to school for Computer Robotics. I received my diploma in 1989 from ABC Technical College. I worked in Nogales as a Medical Technologist and ran a part time computer repair service out out of our house. We found our dream house and everything seemed to be doing quite well.
Things are not always as they seem and we ended up moving from Tucson to Kansas where I took a job as a Lab Manager and was able to really live, but there were a lot of problems there, small towns in Western Kansas have little to no resources for handicapped chlldren and we ended up moving to Georgia, mainly because hat is where I found work. That was 1995 and we have stayed here in South Georgia. I wonder sometimes if it weren't all in God's plan for us. We have seen more than most people do in their lifetime. We have been hurt by a few people that had bad motives and we have been helped by many people along the way. We have always had faith in the lord and in Jesus Christ and that has sometimes been all we had.
I know for a fact that as bad as some of the things are that have happened to our family there are families out there that have it a lot worse, so I am not complaining, it could have been a whole lot worse.
I mean we never had to bury a child and many people do, Our grandchildren's uncle was murdered a few years back, and every once in a while our oldest will say he misses his Uncle Josh. I can remember walking around the ponds and lakes out by where he was last seen looking for any sign of a body. We didn't find it that day, but the helicopter crew form Warner Robbins did, They picked up the person that murdered him the next day and he is in prison for 30 years. I am thankful that we never had to bury one of our children though that came awful close when Christopher our youngest who is now 32 had a bad seizure in Dallas Texas and was flat lined for about 3 minutes before they were able to bring him back then he spent a week in Children's Hospital ICU.
Now we are getting older and have settled down, I am hoping for good. We have been searching for a Church to attend since we came to Moultrie and have tried out a few, most of which did not really welcome us with open arms. When you have 2 Children who are no longer really children that have Autism it is really difficult to find a church that doesn't prefer you stay away. Last September we found a church that actually welcomes handicapped adults and children. They actually have a ministry called Breathe and it is wonderful for the children and the parents.
We had pretty much given up finding a church though we really were still hoping and had prayed many times for what we considered a miracle. One day though we received an invitation from the Center where Scot and Chris attend telling us about a 2 hour respite care program at Heritage Church. We called and spoke with Tara Torbert, who git us all set up and we took Scot and Chris out to them for a couple hours. I think she ,may have asked where we go to church and my wife said we didn't because of the boys so she invited us to come. It was several weeks though before we got up enough courage or whatever to try it out. We had some bad experiences before were not really expecting his to be much different. I think we Ruth and I both knew when we met Tara and then Nettie that it was a good thing and Heritage Church was right for us. The boys were taken into the main church we were told that they would say there until after the Music was finished then hey would go to their room and they would have activities to do back there. Scot and Chris both seemed happy with that way of doing things, sometimes it can be pretty hard to figure out what is making Chris Happy or upset.
The last 3 years have really drained us financially, first the hospital where I work cut out the call pay which effectively cut my pay by about 1000.00 a month. that was 2009, then Chris had to have surgery on his right arm to fix a dislocated shoulder. Due to what I can only call medical malpractice on the part of the surgeon he may never gain the complete use of the right arm again. Then Scot was found to have Kidney Cancer and because at the time there was not a urologist that did surgery in Moultrie we had to take him to Emory in Atlanta to get his left kidney removed. We were starting to recover slightly when we found out that Ruth had DCIS Ductal Carcinoma in Situ which after the tissue was removed, the she has to have daily radiation treatments, she is over 1/2 way through them. I have insurance which I pay the first 500.00 and 25% of everything else up to 5000.00 then the insurance pays the rest. My share went over the 5000.00 in January after the surgery so with what was left from December then added in January I owe the hospital alone over 8000.00. so you can see why finances are tight.
Anyway because the finances are tight and have been for a few years now a lot of things have been let go, especially anything in the house that we thought could wait, things like painting the house and fixing the Central Heat and air unit which will probably cost around 600.00 and other stuff like that.
Well it seems the church has a program they call Mega Impact and this year they have been trying to help as many families that have children Special Needs as possible. Scot and Chris both have degrees of Autism and the church asked me to make a list of things that we needed so I did , thinking that they could pick out any 1 or 2 things on the list. Based on what they have told us they plan to do there are projects all over Southwest Georgia and some have already started. A young man's family in Funston GA, got a new roof on his house on the 15th and 16th. Our house was brought up to the City Electric Code which means we no longer have any of the old glass screw in fuses we had last week, and that our electric doesn't flicker whenever we use the toaster and the microwave at the same time. Jeffrey's house in Funston sure looks good in the pictures. The plan as I understand it is to also pressure wash and paint our house and the Mega Impact Team has about 10 or 15 other projects all over the area. There will be about 120 people coming in from Tennessee, the crew chiefs will be from the church here.
It looks to me as if Mega Impact is going to be a tremendous IMPACT on the community of Moultrie and Southwest Georgia. If you are in the area you can stop by the Church on March 23rd 2013 for the Family Fun Day which will officially kick off Mega Impact for 2013. There will be a lot of stuff going on free food a 5 K and a 10 K race and a wheelchair race also and just a whole bunch of activities.Come out an join in the festivities, everyone is welcome.
Also join us for the Tour de Tifton?Ilse Boyette Memorial Bike Ride on April 6th at the Tiftarea YMCA Hunt Park Campus exit I-75 Exit 63 B. Tifton Georgia.
Have a great day
Jerry "The Bicycle Nut" Goodwin
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